{"id":370,"date":"2014-10-09T02:47:39","date_gmt":"2014-10-09T02:47:39","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/behavioralhealthmn.com\/blog\/?p=81"},"modified":"2021-11-22T14:58:01","modified_gmt":"2021-11-22T20:58:01","slug":"resiliance","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.behavioralhealthmn.com\/blog\/2014\/10\/09\/resiliance\/","title":{"rendered":"Resiliance"},"content":{"rendered":"

How can you tell if you are truly resilient? \u00a0Taken from a blog written on Psych Central, here are 4 key\u00a0components that contribute to resilience. (How to Know if You’re Truly resilient, by Jan Bruce<\/a> )<\/p>\n

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  1. You believe in yourself.\u00a0<\/strong>Seems simple and obvious, but in fact, you won\u2019t get very far without this. A resilient person is not cocky or overly confident; quite the opposite: He has a clear sense of his own potential, capability, and ability to cope and achieve \u2014 a top trait of resilient people. It\u2019s this belief that contributes to another of my favorite qualities: self-efficacy, which means not only your ability to do a thing but to access the resources to get the help you need.<\/li>\n
  2. You have the ability to see what is possible, while also seeing what is.\u00a0<\/strong>Optimism has been touted as above-all important, but resilient people temper this with a less-is-more approach. Blind optimism is a liability, but tempered with clear vision, an optimistic outlook is an asset, and I\u2019m far more likely to trust someone with a sense of realistic optimism than someone who refuses to take into account the downsides in the \u201cspirit of positivity.\u201d The most resilient people assess their surroundings as well as their own strengths and weaknesses in context, and know where they will excel and where they will fall short.At the same time, they have a positive bias \u2014 they expect good things from the world and from other people. It\u2019s this kind of outlook that allows them to do what\u2019s also critical: to see the world for what it is. And you need both. The clear vision is what gives you the power to assess what is and what you need to do about it (realism), and at the same time keep expecting good things. Because if you truly believe that there\u2019s nothing and no one good left, you won\u2019t be able to function, let alone thrive.<\/li>\n
  3. You have control over your impulses and feelings.\u00a0<\/strong>With the ability to self-evaluate and assess a situation must come the willingness to manage the impulses and emotions that result. This is where a resilient person\u2019s rubber meets the road. The most resilient people I know aren\u2019t hotheads; they don\u2019t combust over little (or big) things. They\u2019re able to take everything into account before they respond so that they don\u2019t make mistakes, rash decisions, or other actions they may regret. Unchecked emotions and impulses not only contribute to those actions, but can cost them some self-preservation, as they\u2019re big contributors to stress.This takes a lot of practice. We\u2019ll spend our lives learning to be better. But it is a skill that can be learned and honed, and the most resilient among us know that.<\/li>\n
  4. You aim high and reach out.\u00a0<\/strong>A resilient person doesn\u2019t curl up and die over the slightest rejection or failure. In fact, a resilient person does the opposite of curl up; she expands. She reaches out, even in the wake of crisis.This is one of the most distinguishing characteristics of resilience: Your ability to continue to aim high and reach for it, as opposed to lowering your standards, expectations, or efforts. So when things don\u2019t go your way (as they sometimes don\u2019t), and you feel hindered or pushed back, your inner resilience can keep you coming back, and reaching out, not just to try again, but to outdo yourself, once again.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

    For more information please contact Healthwise Behavioral Health & Wellness<\/a>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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